THE PURPOSE OF TEMPLES
The
temples are meant for social get-together and Satsangh (meeting of good
people). The temple is a representation of the human body with 9 holes (two eye
sockets, two ears, two nostrils, mouth, anus and ureter). The ideal temple would
thus have nine windows or doors or openings representing the human body. The
idol represents the soul within the body (Not to be confused that the idol has
supernatural powers and can grant any wish if properly pleased by bribing !)
In
a proper temple there would be something for awakening the five senses. Hymns
or Music for the ears (hearing sense), lights for the eyes (sense of sight),
water sprinkling for the skin (touch sense), Incense sticks and flowers for
nose (sense of smell) and prasad for tongue (sense of taste).
Thus
temples are places to awaken the senses. What for? Only with alert senses one
would be able to attain progress in life. Thus those who seek better quality of
life, need to awaken their senses. It also implies that if someone does not
want material progress but spiritual progress, then he / she does not have to
awaken the senses or even go to temples. Material progress and spiritual
progress are two diametrically opposite paths. One can probably chose only
choose one at a time. If one has pent up desires in mind, he / she may go to
temples for Satsangh or at least intentionally awaken and strengthen their
senses by developing a strong healthy body. They have too keep themselves away
from habits which weaken the senses such as too much food, smoking, non veg
food, alcoholism, drugs etc. Then do your dharma without deviating from the
prescribed path that is ‘Loka Samastha Sukhino Bhavanthu’ (let all become
happy) or ‘ Avanavan atmasukhthinu acharikkunnava aparannu sukhthinay varenam’ (An
action that one does for happiness of oneself, should result in creating
happiness for others also). Thus only mutually beneficial businesses should be
indulged in. Other businesses may not give lasting peace even if they can
create loads of money and end up with hatred and competition with others.
How to pray:
That
is right. There is a way to pray. During the exam time one may run to the
nearest temple and pray that he be passed in the exam with the condition that
if the wish is granted, the idol is promised a certain offering ! This is the
wrong way. Because several misunderstandings are there in this way of praying.
1).
The first is that you are assuming that the God is there to grant your desires.
Desires are what one should actually get over. God only can help you to do
that. A desire is actually a personal weakness of those who pray. Instead of
seeking a way to get over the desires, they end up praying to God to satisfy
the desires, which is patently wrong. Desires are never going to be satisfied for
ever. They keep coming and we end up praying!
2).
The second fault is that everyone is given the capability to sustain oneself
and attain the personal wishes and God cannot give you anymore even if you
pray. If you pressurise God to make you run as fast as Usain Bolt, then God
would be obviously under stress ! Thus it is to be understood that we ARE
capable of achieving what is normally desirable to us. If we get worked up by
the prosperity of someone else which is clearly beyond one’s own capability, then
even God cannot grant your wish, however hard you pray !
3).
The third fault is that we tend to forget that the God is the creator of all
things. I wonder if God would like to have any other offering than fresh
smelling flowers that too in their own bushes itself unplucked! So God will be
more pleased if you can water the plant instead of plucking its only flower for
prayers ! Offerings in money and Gold etc may be like offerings in paper and
stone respectively to the creator, that is they have no value to him. Anyway if
selfish people who would not normally donate money to charity, offers a part of
their wealth to temples for the guarantee of the idol to take care of their
wealth, and if that money is used to benefit the poor people, a good purpose
may be getting served. Hopefully such monies won’t end up only in lining the
temple trustee’s pockets !
So
what is the right way to pray?
One
can pray to realise one’s desires without hurting anyone else’s life.
Another
pray can be to guide one the right path of achieving the desires.
Another
can be to reassure oneself that he is capable of realising the goals.
God
has given you everything. What else do you need?
The
best prayer can be to help one transcend the desire itself !
Happy
praying !
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