WHAT IS WOMEN'S FREEDOM ?

WHAT IS WOMEN'S FREEDOM ?

Male owners discuss with assumed self righteousness. How much freedom can we give for our females ? The decision is unanimous. Already she is a nuisance ! No further freedom at all ! OMG !

This is exactly the problem !

What ? Giving no more freedom than the present ? No. That someone else has to give her freedom ! That is the problem. The males are trying to control women. Right ? That is the problem !

This happens only to those who marry ! Until marriage, even the sight of women flying around like butterflies was so exciting for the males ! They compete and capture the best butterflies. The intention or stated purpose is to save her from predators and undeserving males !

Honorable intention indeed ! Then ?

Once the woman is in the male's possession, his attitude changes drastically ! He is no more the same male who loved the women inside out! Every movement of her was linked to his heart throb before marriage! There was spring in the steps. Everywhere it was love and flowers ! And the male did a well thought out decision to marry her. Fair enough. What happened afterwards ?

Real life set in thereafter. That is all. The flowers are gone. The bills are there to pay ! The male feels grounded ! Earlier he was flying in the sky before the adoring eyes of the female fans. Now he is in queue with the rest of the males who were also once flying high ! The males are wiser now than before.

The husband thinks "Once married, I can't see ! My legs are tied ! I am trapped !"

The wife is also grounded ! But the husband thinks he is 'more' grounded than the wife ! She was going to ground anyway ! Besides, she is all smiles after marriage where as the husband has to borrow the smile from her. Before marriage it was the other way round ! What happened ?

Women understand it better. The males were curious about the female before marriage. After marriage, the curiosity is gone ! Reality has set in ! Responsibility takes over. That is all. It is the very same world otherwise. No change at all.

The husbands still feel cheated. The smiles are now rare. The more they smile, the more they feel sinking deeper into some trap ! What a mess !

Earlier the lover male was allowing all freedom to his beloved. He would chase away even a tiger to save her. May be even a dinosaur , had there been Dinos around ! Dinos are just lucky indeed escaping the wrath of human male lovers.

This is the situation of the males. That is he is already in deep trouble after marriage. His dream beloved who was practically weightless earlier like a butter fly has crash landed on his head with full actual weight ! Now the wife, no more a butter fly, may be now more of a seal is always around him. His secrets are caught before they even come out ! What a mess !

Now these seals are asking for more freedom too. it is a challenge on the males. No doubt. Show that you are a man ! Treat me like a queen, if you can !

The poor males are at a tight corner. From there, they try to show off that they are quite happy in that mess ! There is no way out. Soon the husbands are up in arms against the wives. Well, quite a few of them to be exact ! Not all of them anyway.

The women are also trapped. She has lost her freshness and youth. And she gave all that she had to her man. He enjoyed all and now says I am bored with you !

What would the wife do ? She has nowhere to go herself !

Now the males discuss ! How much freedom can we allow for the females? To the males, the females are already enjoying life. She has claimed all his being. Sucked him dry ! Nowhere to run. Now float about with th rest till death. And enjoy what is now left. Food, drinks. Yes. But sorry ! No women. The wife cannot stand another woman !

The husband looks through the window in despair ! And he spots the same butterflies smiling around as if nothing happened before marriage. But now he cannot look at them the same way he did when he was a green horn. Now he is a veteran. Butterflies are looking for green horns. Not veterans. Stay away !

The husband thinks. I should not have married THIS woman ! Actually my match was THAT woman who is living her life with a smile ! Wrong decision ! What a stupidity !

The husband of the successful smiling wife now starts showing off ! He had a score to settle with the rest of the males ! Now is his chance ! Use it. Just rub it in ! Let him feel it. I had suffered myself similarly. Pay back time folks.

So lets ask this successful husband how much freedom one can give for the wife ! He appears the best among the rest of apparently tired and confused or pretending husbands.

"Dear successful hubbies ! How much freedom do you think you can give to women?"

The males simply cannot give any freedom to women. Instead the women take the freedom from desirable males ! The males do not have to give any freedom whatsoever to the females ! Simply allow them to take the freedom ! With the males who allow no freedom, the butterfly that was flying over the garden without limitations, becomes a heavy seal trudging around the male owner !

Why ? Because the associated male is lethargic or incompetent. There is no more life left in him. Soon he transforms into a Compass always turning towards his wife ! Doubting Thomas and jealous spy results. The rest of the life for the wife is called hell.

That gives a chance for the active and competent males around to kindly give the seal a better life, may be back to her butterfly days ! She loves to be a butterfly than a seal ! The husband, even though he has no interest in the wife, now has to waste his life fighting potential better males. It simply sounds illogical ! Right ?

Under these circumstances what freedom can the males allow for females ? When their minds are free and young, they experience freedom. But that freedom soon gets evaporated once the relations, limitations and boundaries come in. The freedom is lost. Now it is bondage.

Can someone in bondage allow freedom to the rest ?

End of story !

The bottom line is : Females naturally take her freedom around the males. No male controls any part of her freedom. Males may go overboard in their attempts to impress the females. Associate with safe males, who may not hurt the females when in foul mood. Do not expect him to be another Krishna incarnation. That is only your imagination. The dude may give you the hint that he is human. Understand it. If nothing to do, just relax in the sun shine, listen to music, have good food, sing, dance and do the chores like keeping self and premises clean ! If the male is lucky, he would spot you. If not do not despair. Better more appropriate one would follow. Tailor made for the females ! Relax, If not in this birth, in later births. Most males see only the shape of the females. Remain happy and peaceful at all times. Create an atmosphere of peace around. The duties of the females are complete !